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dear me collective is a living room in SoHo for New Yorkers who want to hear themselves.
Every gathering is small, usually eight to twenty-five people, so the living room always feels like home. I read every request myself and invite in small rounds, so think of this less as a booking and more as a hello.
Almost everyone here came through someone else. If someone sent you, tell me who.
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a few things before we meet
What is dear me collective?
dear me collective is an invitation only gathering community in SoHo, New York, for people who want to hear themselves. It began at my dining table in December 2025, and since March 2026 I have been bringing New York’s healers and practitioners into our living room for cacao ceremonies, breathwork, sound baths, Pilates, art therapy and goal setting nights.
What happens at a dear me gathering?
Each gathering is built around one practice, led by a practitioner I trust. We take our shoes off, share small bites and spend the evening slowing down together. Most people leave having heard themselves a little more clearly.
Where are dear me gatherings held?
In our private living room in SoHo, New York. It is our actual home, where my husband and I live and love opening the door. I share the exact address once your seat is confirmed.
Who comes to dear me gatherings?
Founders, creatives and curious New Yorkers who want to slow down. Men, women and couples are all welcome.
How many people come to each gathering?
Usually between eight and twenty-five, so the living room always feels like home.
How do I get invited to dear me collective?
Ask for an invitation on this page, or come through someone who has been before. I invite in small rounds and read every request myself, because keeping our living room a safe and trusted home matters most to me.
Can I bring a friend?
Yes. Once you are in, you can share the invitation with a friend who would bring joy to the evening. Just ask them to add your name as their referrer.